Tuesday, August 31, 2010

The storm

It's awful. the calls. the texts. the demands for money. the rudeness to the lawyer and the complete sweet as can be to me. Is she hormonal? Is she a con? What do we do?

it's awful. it's making me sick. But we only have a month or so to go. what do we do? it's awful. we're scheduled to meet her this weekend. I'm currently avoiding my phone. we're checking scam boards. we're considering a PI. Then the next day a complete turn around. it's awful.


  1. It seems kind of lame to say "Hang in there!" but it's all I've got at the moment...Hang in there, Mrs. H.

    Sending lots of good energy your way.

    Best and peace.

  2. Have you talked to her about any of it? Is it possible that your lawyer is demanding money for her and she isn't asking for it? Could he be trying to make a few extra bucks? Also isn't there an limit on how much support you can give her.

  3. I hope that after meeting her, some of your concerns diminish. In the meantime, I wish that you can find a way to be at peace; things shouldn't be this hard on anyone...you don't deserve this sort of frustration. ((Hugs))

  4. There is a limit on what we can help her with. It seems like something always happens though and she needs more...which we're happy to provide. It's just the excuses are getting old...and they're not always matching depending on who she talks to about it. It's raising a lot of red flags for the professionals in the situation. We've never been here before so we're hoping it's gonna be ok.

  5. I'm so sorry about this, how stressful. Praying.

  6. Maybe a little sit-down 'come to Jesus' talk is in order? Sounds like she's being manipulative in the extreme... your "and they're not always matching depending on who she talks to about it" gives me the willies.

    Thinking of you... keep us posted.