I have a friend, T who is getting married later this year. She's 30. We were chatting last night and she said her fiance wants a baby right away but she wasn't sure. I launched into my crazy infertile mode... "You really need to be aware of your fertility and you need to protect it". Then I went into a discussion (kinda one sided) of cervical mucus. I told her I would have lent her fertility for dummies if I hadn't thrown it out in a fit of anger lol.
She took it very well. She prob thinks I'm nuts. Oh well.
Social workers a kind of nice
15 years ago
Hello! I'm glad that you found me! I have a friend who is two years younger than me and she just had a birth control device implanted in her. I had to bite my tongue before I launched into the fertility mode myself!!!! I wanted to say don't wait!! Oh yes...if I could only turn the clocks back!
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Laura :)
I've done the same thing to a couple of friends and also my new SIL. She is a couple of years younger but my BIL is a professor and they will be traveling for his research and don't plan to start TTC until he gets tenure somewhere. I've given her dire warnings about the consequences... :) My BFF was paranoid when she started TTC because of seeing my experiences, but she conceived (both) easily. Anyhow, I will always wonder what would have happened if we had decided to throw caution to the wind and start TTC when I was in my early 20s and we had no money. C'est la vie.
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